I miss the people the most, the interactions, whether one-on-one or in a group sitting down for lunch. The weather too, it’s impossible to not miss high 70’s and no rain. The culture, the 'pace of life’, island time, we were a good fit. It’s a good thing to have a plan but there has to be some flexibility to it, it’s good to just step back, relax, and go with things sometimes. That was one aspect I liked about CV, about its culture, their ability and mentality to do that. To take a deep breath and relax, live (not saying that living in Praia is sand beaches and all-you-can-drink papaya juice every day, it is just a very different culture than ours in America).
This mentality was evidenced on many occasions. Whether it was meetings being delayed by one, sometimes two hours; my own host family knowing that ‘meet at Cafe Sophia by 8 am’ in reality meant that I didn’t have to leave for the cafe until, at the earliest, 8 am; to the construction workers drinking grogue while laying cement blocks at ten in the morning. The drive from the airport to our neighborhoods was the first, and probably best, example of this type of lifestyle. It struck me, how many people were standing/sitting outside their homes, on the curb of the street, like it was the only thing to do. Maybe in some cases it was only thing to do, but that fact doesn’t matter. In a way it was refreshing, that they were outside, communicating. Even if they were not directly communicating with another person they were still communicating with their surroundings, and they were communicating with me even if they didn’t realize it.